Tuesday, July 04, 2006

MUMBAI? RUDE? HOW RUDE!!!
“After you”
“Can I help you??”
“I beg your pardon”
These are phrases we hear often, but seldom in Mumbai .Is this really true??A recent survey performed by Readers Digest revealed that Mumbai is the rudest city in the world!
Having lived here for over 21 years, rude would be the last way I would describe it. Mumbai is a melting pot for various cultures. People from all over the country and around the world reside in this city. Most of these people call it home. Mumbai is known to have a very fast life .Hence most people here would agree with me when I say “There is so much to do and so little time”. A number of times this trait is mistook for arrogance or rudeness. However when it matters people come through. Take for instance the 26/7 deluge. The day when Mumbai experienced the fatal rainfall!Along the flooded roads where heavy current water was flowing, people made human chains in order to help others cross the road safely. Residents of various areas distributed food to people who were stuck through the night and could’nt go further until the rains stopped. A lot of people joined organizations like Touch etc to help families that were badly affected by this deluge. Does’nt this signify politeness??
I don’t think it right to label Mumbai as a rude city because of one incident. One has to live here and experience the life for a long enough period in order to soak in the essence of Mumbai.

3 comments:

Chirag said...

have to agree with you
i myself was quite shocked to see the news myself. maybe it was one way of increasing circulation here.
Mumbai mirror too had a similar rudeness test after this survey and they found out that even in the middle of the busiest road people wait and help others pick papers up. dont think that happens in any of the more so called articulate cities in the world.
So we dont say please (if we say kripyaa people might think we are trying to be sarcastic or something) but the standard mumbaiite is not curt and ready to help in time of need.
btw Nice title

Krishna Sheshan said...

Yeah its all in the mind...our upbringing is competitive and not cooperative which makes the whole difference...and we become so and be so all our life till some situations touch us that stir our inner emotions and articulates our thought process to relook at what needs to be done beyond to human mankind.

Nikhil said...

6 years hence.....have ur views changed.
btw readers digest shut down......cause they published bull shit!

they are now replaced by " Tinkle Digest"
-peace